Now that we’re into 2019, how are you doing with your New Year’s resolutions? Setting goals in the love department is just as important as other aspects of life like losing weight or getting your finances in shape. So even though you may already be working on other resolutions, don’t put your relationship on the back stage.
Instead of accentuating the positives, the advice from couples’ research often focuses on minimizing the negatives – don’t nag, don’t withhold sex, don’t overreact, don’t try to control. But why not focus your love resolutions on the do’s instead of don’ts? Positive emotions can open you up to new possibilities. So, if you want to actively enrich your love relationship, here are 10 tips on how to go about it:
1Say, “I love you” more.
In a healthy relationship, there should be no end to the various creative ways to say I love you. While saying it regularly does not lessen the meaning, saying it in innovative ways is always a pleasant surprise and it’s the closest thing to magic that we have.